HOW TO BE A GOOD GURL

Tips for when you are being fucked Doggy Style
by dulce-t (Fetlife)

Here are some tips on becoming a better bottom.

SPREAD YOUR KNEES WIDE. The wider the bottom spreads his knees, the easier it will be while in doggy style. YES!

ARCH YOUR BACK. This will not only look sexier, but also make deep penetration easier and less painful.

PUSH YOUR ASS OUT. This shows the top you crave for cock or a strap-on in your ass. Once it is in, you can push back to the rhythm of the thrusts.

PLACE YOUR CHEST SQUARELY ON THE BED. There is a reason a top pushes your head in the pillow or the sheets. This helps arch your back and push your ass out. It’s visually stimulating, because the focus is now completely on the ass you have presented to the top. The symbolic submission is also a big turn-on to a dominant top.

RELAX YOUR ANAL SPHINCTER. Having adopted the position described in steps 1-4, you should now focus your mind on relaxing your anal sphincter. It may help to remember how you take a dump, because the muscular relaxation is identical. Steps 1-5 should, with practice, enable very deep penetration with little or no pain.

ALLOW DEEP PENETRATION. Once you’ve mastered the previous steps, you may let him/ her spread his own legs wider than yours so he/ she can get more directly above you to pump his/ her cock or strap-on down and deep with the balls bouncing off your ass.

REACH FOR HIS BALLS. Many tops find this very arousing, because you are fondling the sacks that produce their sperm, affirming their manhood.

COMMUNICATE. Tell him how much you enjoy having his cock in you. Let him know if you like his scent. Ask him to go slow if you feel pain.

Additional tips may be appropriate to partners who thrive on domination and submission. In all cases, these should be within reason. Both partners must be comfortable with this. Experiment to see what works best.

LET HIM/ HER SPANK YOU. A lot of dominant get turned on by slapping the asses they are fucking, and seeing those asses turn a rosy color.

LET HIM/ HER GRAB YOUR HAIR. Another turn-on for many dominant tops.

LET HIM/ HER HOLD YOUR NIPPLES OR MAN BOOBS. As he/ she pumps the cock or strap-on up your ass.

LET HIM/ HER CALL YOU NAMES THAT TURN HIM/ HER ON IN THE HEAT OF THE FUCK. “Bitch,” “cocksucker,” “fag,” etc. But only when used in a non-derogatory way. This is about breaking taboos (which are charged with emotional intensity) and letting both of you get aroused by embracing your (contrasting) inner natures.

LET HIM/ HER CALL YOUR HOLE A “PUSSY” OR “CUNT.” That is, after all, its functional equivalent.

SHOW HIM/ HER RESPECT. Be polite. Thank him/ her after a good fuck.